When it comes to relationships, it’s usually the little things that keep the love alive.
Now, a psychologist has revealed a simple trick that can make couple feel 20 per cent happier.
While sharing the washing-up might seem like a minor gesture, experts say it can have a surprisingly positive impact.
Dr Hannah Lawson, who has over 12 years’ experience in relationship counselling and behavioural psychology, said those who wash dishes together often report feeling closer, more respected and generally happier.
And she explained that teaming up on this everyday task builds fairness, teamwork and a sense of partnership – boosting couples’ happiness by as much as a fifth on average.
‘When you share even small chores, you show each other that you are equals,’ she said.
‘And that is often far more powerful than big romantic gestures.’
When the washing up is left to just one person it can create feelings of resentment or imbalance, she added.
Sharing the washing-up builds fairness, teamwork and a sense of partnership – boosting couples’ happiness by as much as a fifth on average, Dr Lawson said (stock image)
However, sharing the chore and standing side-by-side means that couples can talk about their day, coordinate plans or simply spend quiet moments together without interruptions.
It can also build trust by building the confidence that each person can rely on each other – even with mundane things.
Other benefits include keeping the kitchen cleaner, discouraging pests like ants and flies, and teaching children to see teamwork in action.
Working together may even save water by consolidating dishwashing into one joint effort, Dr Lawson said.
‘Think of it as a small daily ritual that pays you back with trust, respect, and a stronger emotional connection,’ she added.
Tips to get started with shared dishwashing include alternating who washes and who dries, and playing music to make it more enjoyable.
Treating it as a daily routine, rather than a punishment, can also help, Dr Lawson said.
And as tempting as it may be, try to avoid criticising each other’s style.
The expert said that the small habit can make a ‘huge difference’, improving the emotional wellbeing of a couple (stock image)
Dr Lawson made the comments in partnership with bathroom and kitchen expert Plumbworld.
A spokesman for the company said: ‘A simple five-minute routine can keep your sink clear – and your relationship healthier.
‘Washing up together is one of those small habits that can make a huge difference.
‘It supports better hygiene, fairness, and even improves your emotional wellbeing as a couple.’
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