A marriage proposal is widely considered one of the most magical moments of a person’s life – and, for many couples, a destination proposal at a romantic location only elevates the landmark occasion.
And though the change of scenery might make for a significant and unforgettable moment, the manner in which a proposal is executed can certainly impact the overall experience.
According to Simone Visconti, Romance Concierge at Four Seasons Resort Seychelles and Four Seasons Resort Seychelles at Desroches Island, the moment isn’t just about the setting, it’s about creating something that outlives the proposal.
Over the years, Simone has helped countless guests plan dinners under the stars on the island’s private runway, surprise engagements atop the lighthouse during golden sunsets, and torch-lit beach picnics where the only witnesses were the waves.
He tells Daily Mail: ‘Whether you’ve been carrying the ring for weeks or just starting to plan your moment, here’s what you really need to know before asking the most important question of your life in paradise.’
Read on to discover the expert’s does and don’ts of destination proposals:
Do: Plan ahead – but keep room for spontaneity
Simone insists on ‘thoughtful planning’ as this helps lay the foundation for a unique and memorable proposal – but it’s equally important to leave room for unexpected magic.
A marriage proposal is widely considered one of the most magical moments of a person’s life – and, for many couples, a destination proposal at a romantic location only elevates the landmark occasion
According to Simone Visconti, Romance Concierge at Four Seasons Resort Seychelles, the moment isn’t just about the setting, it’s about creating something that outlives the proposal
He explains: ‘Maybe it’s proposing a day early because the sunset is too perfect to miss or switching locations for a more intimate setting.
‘Flexibility not only allows you to embrace the magic of a destination but ensures the experience feels authentic rather than scripted.’
For couples planning a destination proposal, he recommended consulting with a guest experience team as they can help smoothen the experience by working behind the scenes to accommodate any last minute changes.
Don’t: Try to do it all yourself
When planning a marriage proposal, especially in an unfamiliar place, its important to not try to do everything yourself.
According to Simone, enlisting help in a professional planner can alleviate stress and ensure a more memorable and personalised experience.
He adds: ‘Let the concierge team take the logistics off your plate, handle the unexpected and ensure every detail aligns with your vision.
‘They know the location best so allow them to guide you with their expertise so you can focus on what truly matters.’
When planning a marriage proposal, especially in an unfamiliar place, its important to not try to do everything yourself
Simone encourages couples to choose a proposal location based on its ability to be an integral part of their love story
Do: Let the setting tell part of your story
Visconti encourages couples to choose a proposal location based on its ability to be an integral part of their love story, as not only does this reflect the significance of the moment, it elevates the general mood of the occasion.
He explains: ‘Whether it’s a mountaintop at sunrise because you both love hiking or a candlelit dinner under the stars with our favourite meal, let the setting do some of the storytelling.’
Don’t: Get too caught up in perfection
A genuine marriage proposal, even if not perfectly executed, will be cherished and favoured over a meticulously planned but impersonal one.
According to Simone, it’s important to focus on creating a moment that is authentic to your relationship rather that trying to make it flawless.
He adds: ‘Everything will fall into place if you focus on connection over choreography and trust your instincts.’
Do: Create a memory that lasts beyond the moment
According to Simone, it’s important to focus on creating a moment that is authentic to your relationship rather that trying to make it flawless
To make a marriage proposal memorable and create a lasting memory, focus on pausing and appreciating the moment after the ‘big yes’
To make a marriage proposal memorable and create a lasting memory, focus on pausing and appreciating the moment after the ‘big yes’.
Simone suggests making a memory with something mutually meaningful and enjoyable.
This could be anything from a floating breakfast the following morning to a romantic spa experience, or a helicopter ride over the ocean.
He adds: ‘And never underestimate the joy of returning to your villa to discover a thoughtful surprise waiting for you, whether it’s a drawn bath with petals, a personalised dessert, or a handwritten note that seals the memory.’
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